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People often see the "victim" of a not-so-favorable situation as pitiful while most of the time, i don't. I truly believe in self-management and you be treated the way you want to be treated. Imo, people, too often get carried away with beautiful words they like to hear and things they like to see that to whoever said ugly words, they leave out, even if they meant well. Bad words are more difficult to say than nice words so most of whoever took the effort to, they must have cared anough. But at the end of the day, you don't blame others for hurting you, you blame yourself for letting others hurt you. It irritates me a lot when people get vulnerable deliberately. Or compromise so much they end up doing things they are not willing to but yet all they can say to save themselves is that there is nothing much for them to do. Seriously?

Sorry, but the analytical part of me overpowers me so much its difficult for me to be sympathetic. I honestly wish i wasn't so.